Anchor of this issue: Yi Xiaoqing

# Keywords: social cattle disease

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What is the hottest word in the second half of this year? "Social cow disease" is definitely one. On social networks, more and more people are labeled as "social cow disease". For example, Olympic champion Chen Yuxi often appears in other people’s photos, and his lively and cheerful personality is dubbed "social cow disease"; In the reality show, some invited guests "solo" were full of audience and couldn’t stop, which also made dizzy netizens call them "social cow disease".

To put it simply, the most typical "clinical manifestation" of "social cow disease" is that you are not afraid of others’ eyes, ridicule and neglect when socializing, and you can "socialize" with all kinds of people anytime and anywhere. This social ability, which is beyond the reach of "social phobia", often creates a strange atmosphere of "I am not embarrassed by anyone who is embarrassed", which truly interprets the true meaning of the sentence "once born and twice cooked" in them.

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"Social Cow Disease" provides a set of symbol system for netizens to recognize social character. After the word became popular, many young people suddenly discovered that parents were the "ceiling of human social interaction". For example, some netizens ridiculed their parents for suddenly singing two voices when they were walking on the road; Some people even told the story that "my mother bought a live chicken and didn’t dare to kill it. She shouted in the community with a chicken and asked who would kill it, so I took a kitchen knife and followed it", which made people laugh.

However, among the many manifestations of "social cow disease", some extreme forms are too "unconventional" and even make people physically uncomfortable. For example, some people suddenly shout "the taste of childhood" in restaurants, and others will "grab" other people’s food while others are eating. There are many so-called "social cow disease" videos on the Internet, practicing martial arts on the subway and screaming on the bus. These actions have undoubtedly exceeded the acceptance boundaries of most people.

Rather than saying that these prominent people on the internet are "social cattle disease", it is better to say that they are deliberately grandstanding and attracting attention with extreme behavior regardless of beauty and ugliness. This hysterical carnival of selling ugliness will not only make the parties fall into "social death", but also be an offense to others and lose sincerity and courtesy in interpersonal communication.

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Many young people who discuss "social cow disease" look up to and envy those who have more social skills with a "social fear" mentality. Although "social phobia" has long been paid attention to and studied by psychology, the "social phobia" discussed by people on social networks is more worried and self-deprecating, not necessarily a real mental illness. Sometimes, "social fear" is just a synonym for being relatively introverted and "thin-skinned", and it may not need correction and treatment.

The contrast between "social phobia" and "social cow disease" conveys some social anxiety of young people. Some people are not unable to learn from "social cow disease", but unwilling to step out of the comfort zone of "social phobia" easily. From this perspective, shielding and resistance may be the reason for some people’s "social fear." In this way, it is not difficult to understand the "anti-reconnaissance social fear" of bowing your head or wearing headphones when you meet your colleagues.

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Take the word "social" apart, it refers to the communication interaction across different social circles. Everyone has different social boundaries, and the emotional support they want is also complex and diverse. Every move of an individual may be labeled as personality by others. Too sophisticated social skills, although it can also be regarded as "social cow disease", may not produce good results, but may leave a noisy and hypocritical impression.

Rather than saying that contemporary young people are increasingly disgusted with socializing, it is better to say that they urgently need opportunities for self-disclosure that can put themselves down and put down their guard, and they need higher quality socializing.

In life, friends and confidants are more expensive than essence. We often feel lost in the imagination of ideal social interaction. Perhaps the real social dilemma of young people is that the fate is too shallow and they come and go in a hurry. It’s an instinct for human beings to socialize, so it’s necessary to be friendly. If the discussion upsurge of "social cow disease" can make more people think more deeply about socialization, then these discussions will not be in vain.

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Original title: "Radio Tomorrow | From" social fear "to" social cattle ",what kind of socialization do young people need? 》

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Seeing that the year is approaching, artists from all walks of life are active again, running their business and striving for a sprint at the end of the year.

No, a quotation sheet was recently exposed on the Internet, which is a quotation sheet for stars to record blessing videos, including out-of-date artists, grassroots stars and hot big coffees.

A short video of blessing ranging from tens of seconds to several minutes is also clearly marked, and the price ranges from several thousand yuan to tens of thousands of yuan.

I have to say that the way stars make money is quite easy. Just show up and say a few words, and you can get a lot of income.

And this is just the tip of the iceberg of the stars’ "lying down to make money". Whether they are out-of-date artists or popular big coffees, their ability to absorb gold is not trivial, far exceeding the imagination of ordinary people.

First, for artists who have passed away, Shang Yan’s acupuncture point and live broadcast with goods have become the best choice.

After all, the popular stars are only a few people. For those once famous artists who have gradually lost their attention, there is no place on the screen.

And they usually choose to move to other places, and small places like Shang Yan and live broadcast with goods have become the most convenient and effective means to make money.

Many down-and-out artists from Hong Kong and Taiwan used to be golden supporting actors in film and television dramas. Now, with the overall decline of Hong Kong’s film and television industry, there are not many opportunities for them to make money, and many people will choose to go north to make money.

Some time ago, Hong Xin, a Hong Kong actress, was reported that the appearance fee for a Shang Yan was as high as 600,000 yuan, which was equivalent to the annual income of an ordinary family, but she was only "average".

This has a very low requirement for their professional ability. In an activity in Shang Yan, Hong Xin, we can clearly see that her small belly is protruding and her singing is somewhat out of tune. The level of talent performance is about equal to nothing. Compared with acting, the gold content is lower and it is easier to get money.

Hong Xin is not an exception. Li Choi Wha, the actress who gained attention because of The Temptation to Go Home, has rarely appeared on the screen in recent years.

Some time ago, 38-year-old Li Choi Wha was photographed taking part in a Shang Yan activity in a certain place in Guangxi. She was dressed in a red dress and was singing on a humble stage.

Many people think that Li Choi Wha is "down and out". The big star who used to shine on the screen can only walk in the small county town of Shang Yan.

Actually, it’s not. According to the leaked news, the price of a Shang Yan in Li Choi Wha is about 480,000 yuan, which is not comparable to the popular stars who earn 2.08 million yuan a day, but also the level of ordinary people.

Of course, the price of each star Shang Yan is different, but the skinny camel is bigger than the horse. Liang Xiaobing, a Hong Kong elder sister in her early fifties, has been returning to her family since her marriage, and rarely comes out, only occasionally visiting Shang Yan.

Although the appearance and figure are no longer there, the audience is still willing to buy feelings. It is reported that a Shang Yan in Liang Xiaobing has earned 100,000 yuan.

In addition to going to Shang Yan, live broadcast with goods has also become a "trend", and many former golden supporting actors and out-of-date artists have "re-emerged" and gained a share through short video platforms.

Many old actors of TVB used to be the leading actors with infinite scenery, but now they are getting older. After losing the market, they all join the live studio, such as Deric Wan, Gallen Lo, Jackie Lui and so on.

Many ex-artists in the Mainland are also seeking their own "second spring" in the field of live broadcast. Many people have really made a lot of money again in this way, and Zhu Zixiao, who became popular because of meteor rain, is one of them.

In the early years, because of various rumors, Zhu Zixiao’s road as an actor was very difficult, and even "there was no such person" for a time, until the live broadcast began on the short video platform, and Zhu Zixiao once became the first seller list in 2021 because of the grounding of the live broadcast.

He can broadcast live for 12 hours a day, bringing more than 35 million yuan in goods, and the commission he earns can be seen. Some netizens even broke the news that Zhu Zixiao can sell more than 200 million yuan in goods a month, and his ability to absorb gold is quite outstanding.

Of course, those who do well will be scolded badly. Zhao Wenqi, Qin Yumo, and Kimi, Chen Meijia, from ipartment, were both scolded badly for selling goods live.

Although not all stars can bring goods by live broadcast and earn a lot of money, it has indeed become a relaxed "rich classics" for many stars, which is much faster than acting.

Second, popular stars make a lot of money, and fans become "big heads"

For the popular stars who still have appeal and fan base, there are more ways to make money while lying down, and Shang Yan doesn’t even pay attention to it.

(An activity in Dilraba costs more than 2 million yuan)

Compared with some out-of-date artists, these popular stars seem to cherish feathers a little more, do not bring goods without restraint, and prefer to set up their own brands, whether it is restaurant chains or trendy clothes, which are their "first choice" in bonus hunter.

Nana Ou-yang, which overturned some time ago, is a good example.

Although Nana Ou-yang’s acting has not been very good in recent years, and he has not taken the road of music, he still has a large number of fans, and his fan base is huge. Nana Ou-yang wisely saw the value of this, and he was very happy to open a museum and create a fashion brand.

And she claims to be a clothing brand that has been researched and developed for three years. After it was launched, it caused great repercussions. Of course, it was negative. Because she exposed the idea of "cutting leeks" too clearly, two pairs of socks sold for 168 yuan, still worthless raw materials, and were exposed by peers for huge profits.

Even many fans can’t stand her dazzling behavior of circling money.

There is no sense of design, and the cost is worthless, but it is sold at a sky-high price. It is not wrong for Nana Ou-yang to be scolded this wave. However, she is just one of many "leek cutting" stars.

For example, Nana, Wilber Pan, Bai Jingting, Li XiaoLu and others are all running their own fashion brands, so let’s put aside the sense of design. As long as there is a stunt with a star name, these clothes with ordinary workmanship can double their value and sell at sky-high prices.

An ordinary hoodie can sell for thousands of dollars; A candlestick can sell for nearly 25 thousand yuan. It can be said that the name of the star is becoming a "fig leaf" to circle money.

In addition to fashion brands, stars also like to cluster in the catering industry. From Morphy and Huang Lei to Orfila, Bao Beier and Michael Chen, almost half of the stars have dabbled in catering.

However, there are few restaurants that really go on, and the food is cheap and beautiful. Most of them are bonus hunter, a high-priced food. Earlier, baby opened a brand of milk tea, and a cup of milk tea is close to 50 yuan, which is staggering.

And Michael Chen’s "Xianhezhuang" has also caused many problems.

With the star effect, Xianhezhuang reaped franchisees, and expanded more than 800 stores in two years. Each franchisee paid at least 480,000 franchise fees, and the brand of Xianhezhuang earned more than 380 million yuan. As a result, after joining, it was unable to operate, and only franchisees were angry and defended their rights.

After making a big deal, Chen Hefang quietly withdrew from the ranks of shareholders. After that, he did not give too much explanation, and things were so lightly revealed. As a star, Michael Chen still got along well.

There is also a brand of milk tea in Guan Xiaotong, which was advertised by Guan Xiaotong as a star earlier, attracting many franchisees to join.

As a result, after something happened, he immediately "denied it", saying that Guan Xiaotong had little to do with the brand of milk tea, and only the franchisees held up the brand to complain.

In the words of netizens, they have a share in propaganda, keep quiet when making money, and run faster than anyone else when taking responsibility. They don’t need to actually do anything, and they can easily earn a lot of money by relying on the fame brought by their names.

These are still the ways of appealing stars to "lie down and make money". For many small paste coffees and love beans, they rely more on fans and let them be "big heads". This year’s unknown Aidou Ding Zeren, let everyone open their eyes.

The fan who loves beans stepped back after taking off the powder, shaking all the things that Ding Zeren had done in recent years. Apart from biting his colleagues and sleeping powder, the former fan also revealed that he had spent more than 3 million yuan on Ding Zeren in the past four years, and bought him luxury goods and worried about his career, which was almost equivalent to half a "mother".

And this brother, not only does not care about his career, but also his business ability is not good. He has also achieved "soft rice and hard food". He only needs to say a few sweet words, and what "you are my only sister" can make fans willing to be suckers.

After the incident was exposed, Ding Zeren said that he was controlled by the spirit of fans, and netizens asked him to return the money to others first.

Obviously, Ding Zeren is definitely not a case. This is just the tip of the iceberg for fans to "cultivate" love beans, but it is enough to see how easy it is for these stars to make money lying down.

Although so many stars have talked about the way of "lying down to make money", small 8 thinks that the public are not fools. Everyone will suffer once, but they will not suffer again and again. This behavior of cutting public leeks is doomed to be short-term.

　　Tired of takeout?

　　Today, Xiaobian gives you a change of taste!

　　Tofu that can be "drunk"? Cooking food with tea leaves? And the dish is called farewell my concubine?

　　Special cuisine of cities along the canal

　　Here we come ~

　　01 Beijing

　　Roast duck — — It is a famous Beijing dish with world reputation, which originated in the Southern and Northern Dynasties in China and belongs to court food.

　　Although it is shiny and shiny, the high-quality duck meat, after being roasted with fruit, wood and charcoal fire, presents a mellow, fat but not greasy appearance for diners, and is known as "delicious in the world".

　　02 Tianjin

　　Guifaxiang 18th Street Twist — — Tianjin’s century-old dough twist shop, together with Tianjin Goubuli steamed stuffed bun and Erduoyan fried cake, is also called "Tianjin Three Musts". As the name implies, its shop was once located at 18th Street, Dagu South Road, so its name is "Guifaxiang 18th Street Twist", but people are more accustomed to calling it 18th Street Twist.

　　Guifaxiang 18th Street Twist was recognized as "Chinese Famous Snack" at the first national famous snack recognition meeting, and was named "Chinese Time-honored Brand" by the Ministry of Internal Trade of China in 1996.

　　In the center of Guifaxiang’s twist, there is a mixed stuffing crisp bar made of sesame, peach kernel, melon seed, green plum, osmanthus fragrans, green shredded pork and essence water. After deep-frying, it will also be accompanied by small materials such as rock candy, green red silk and melon strips on its surface. Layers of attack, showing a crisp and sweet taste.

　　03 Cangzhou

　　Hotpot chicken — — Originated in Cangzhou, Hebei Province, it is a well-known, very popular and affordable food in Cangzhou. When eating, you can also rinse with other dishes according to your own preferences, with accessories such as aged vinegar and garlic paste, which is rich in flavor and memorable.

　　Spicy and delicious hotpot chicken with unique taste is an excellent side dish for next meal!

　　04 Dezhou

　　Braised chicken — — The first of the four famous chickens in China. Dezhou braised chicken production skills are listed as national intangible cultural heritage. In terms of its age, it has a history of more than 300 years! As early as the Qianlong period of the Qing Dynasty, Dezhou braised chicken was listed as a Shandong tribute and sent to the palace for the emperor and the royal family to enjoy!

　　Dezhou braised chicken is famous all over the country because of its unique production method, rotten and boneless meat, delicious color, fat but not greasy taste, and is known as "the best chicken in the world"

　　05 Linqing

　　Tofu with pallets — — Because the seller always cuts it and sells it on a special rectangular board, it is called "pallet tofu". Especially in the morning of Linqing, customers holding pallet tofu for breakfast can be seen everywhere in the streets and lanes, which is not only nutritious, but also delicate, mellow and fragrant!

　　After reading the pictures, are you thinking, "Isn’t this just an ordinary piece of tofu? Where can’t I eat it?" All wet!

　　Tofu with a pallet is made of superior soybeans, which are peeled and soaked, ground into juice, filtered out with cloth, boiled in a pot, and carefully ordered with brine. The most important thing is that it should be "drunk" and eaten. Its tenderness basically does not require chewing. It is a traditional food suitable for all ages.

　　Friends who love tofu must not miss trying this unique way of eating, sweet and delicious plate tofu!

　　06 Yangzhou

　　Lion head — — A traditional dish in Huaiyang Cuisine in Yangzhou, Jiangsu, China Province. Legend has it that the lion’s head practice began in the Sui Dynasty. When Emperor Yangdi was on a lucky trip, the chef made four dishes, including sunflower chop meat and sunflower meatballs, with the theme of four famous scenic spots in Yangzhou.

　　The meat of lion’s head is fresh and tender, fragrant and mellow, crisp and delicious, suitable for all seasons. Some Song people praised its delicious taste with the poem "But one cup is matched with two crabs, and there are really Yangzhou cranes in the world".

　　07 Suzhou

　　Shrimp with snails — — Suzhou, Jiangsu, a traditional famous dish, as its name implies, mainly uses shrimp as the main ingredient and skillfully uses Biluochun as the ingredient. Using the fragrant tea juice of New Biluochun as seasoning, it is cooked with shrimps. The delicious taste of shrimps and the fragrance of famous tea complement each other.

　　Shrimp is as white as jade, and tea leaves are decorated in it. The entrance has a fresh tea fragrance, fresh and tender teeth, and a little sweetness. This combination is bold and delicious, which makes people "love it"!

　　08 Hangzhou

　　West Lake Vinegar Fish — — Also called Uncle and Sister-in-law Chuan Zhen, Song Saoyu. On September 10, 2018, "Chinese food" was officially released, and "West Lake vinegar fish" was rated as one of the top ten classic dishes in Zhejiang.

　　West Lake vinegar fish usually uses grass carp as raw material and is cooked. The surface is covered with a layer of smooth and oily sweet and sour, and the fish is tender and beautiful. If you taste it carefully, there will be a crab-flavored surprise, which is sweet and sour and intriguing.

　　09 Xuzhou

　　Farewell my concubine — — This dish was created by the people in Xuzhou area to commemorate Xiang Yu, a hero of Chu who made great contributions to overthrowing the rule of Qin Dynasty, and to miss Yu Ji, a peerless beauty who was deeply concerned about the country and was righteous and upright, and has been passed down to this day.

　　At present, soft-shelled turtle and chicken are the main ingredients, and the soup is clear, fresh and mellow. The meat of chicken and soft-shelled turtle is tender, crisp and rotten, and rich in nutrition, which is the best in the banquet.

　　Its nutritional value can be imagined, and it is one of the good choices for people who need dietotherapy, such as malnutrition, chills, fatigue, irregular menstruation and anemia. But it doesn’t mean it is suitable for everyone. Please call a professional doctor for the specific operation ~

　　Well, that’s all for today’s "food report". Bring your eager stomach and feel the food culture of the Grand Canal!