Radio tomorrow | From "social fear" to "social cattle", what kind of socialization do young people need?

Anchor of this issue: Yi Xiaoqing

# Keywords: social cattle disease

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What is the hottest word in the second half of this year? "Social cow disease" is definitely one. On social networks, more and more people are labeled as "social cow disease". For example, Olympic champion Chen Yuxi often appears in other people’s photos, and his lively and cheerful personality is dubbed "social cow disease"; In the reality show, some invited guests "solo" were full of audience and couldn’t stop, which also made dizzy netizens call them "social cow disease".

To put it simply, the most typical "clinical manifestation" of "social cow disease" is that you are not afraid of others’ eyes, ridicule and neglect when socializing, and you can "socialize" with all kinds of people anytime and anywhere. This social ability, which is beyond the reach of "social phobia", often creates a strange atmosphere of "I am not embarrassed by anyone who is embarrassed", which truly interprets the true meaning of the sentence "once born and twice cooked" in them.

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"Social Cow Disease" provides a set of symbol system for netizens to recognize social character. After the word became popular, many young people suddenly discovered that parents were the "ceiling of human social interaction". For example, some netizens ridiculed their parents for suddenly singing two voices when they were walking on the road; Some people even told the story that "my mother bought a live chicken and didn’t dare to kill it. She shouted in the community with a chicken and asked who would kill it, so I took a kitchen knife and followed it", which made people laugh.

However, among the many manifestations of "social cow disease", some extreme forms are too "unconventional" and even make people physically uncomfortable. For example, some people suddenly shout "the taste of childhood" in restaurants, and others will "grab" other people’s food while others are eating. There are many so-called "social cow disease" videos on the Internet, practicing martial arts on the subway and screaming on the bus. These actions have undoubtedly exceeded the acceptance boundaries of most people.

Rather than saying that these prominent people on the internet are "social cattle disease", it is better to say that they are deliberately grandstanding and attracting attention with extreme behavior regardless of beauty and ugliness. This hysterical carnival of selling ugliness will not only make the parties fall into "social death", but also be an offense to others and lose sincerity and courtesy in interpersonal communication.

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Many young people who discuss "social cow disease" look up to and envy those who have more social skills with a "social fear" mentality. Although "social phobia" has long been paid attention to and studied by psychology, the "social phobia" discussed by people on social networks is more worried and self-deprecating, not necessarily a real mental illness. Sometimes, "social fear" is just a synonym for being relatively introverted and "thin-skinned", and it may not need correction and treatment.

The contrast between "social phobia" and "social cow disease" conveys some social anxiety of young people. Some people are not unable to learn from "social cow disease", but unwilling to step out of the comfort zone of "social phobia" easily. From this perspective, shielding and resistance may be the reason for some people’s "social fear." In this way, it is not difficult to understand the "anti-reconnaissance social fear" of bowing your head or wearing headphones when you meet your colleagues.

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Take the word "social" apart, it refers to the communication interaction across different social circles. Everyone has different social boundaries, and the emotional support they want is also complex and diverse. Every move of an individual may be labeled as personality by others. Too sophisticated social skills, although it can also be regarded as "social cow disease", may not produce good results, but may leave a noisy and hypocritical impression.

Rather than saying that contemporary young people are increasingly disgusted with socializing, it is better to say that they urgently need opportunities for self-disclosure that can put themselves down and put down their guard, and they need higher quality socializing.

In life, friends and confidants are more expensive than essence. We often feel lost in the imagination of ideal social interaction. Perhaps the real social dilemma of young people is that the fate is too shallow and they come and go in a hurry. It’s an instinct for human beings to socialize, so it’s necessary to be friendly. If the discussion upsurge of "social cow disease" can make more people think more deeply about socialization, then these discussions will not be in vain.

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Original title: "Radio Tomorrow | From" social fear "to" social cattle ",what kind of socialization do young people need? 》

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Ten important changes in social security in 2017 are good for you and me!

  Beijing, Dec. 14 (Reporter Li Jinlei) 2017 is about to pass. Looking back on this year, the main line of "benefiting people’s livelihood" runs through the whole year. Among them, as an important part of people’s livelihood work, social security has undergone at least the following ten important changes in 2017, which have a positive impact on your life and mine.

 

 

  Zhongxin. com reporter Li Jinlei

 

  Pensions ushered in "13 consecutive rises"

 

  [Change] In 2017, pensions continued to increase, achieving "13 consecutive rises". The basic pension level of more than 100 million retirees has been raised by about 5.5%. The pensions of the elderly retirees and retirees from enterprises in remote and hard areas have risen a little more appropriately.

 

  [Impact] As pensions rise, retirees get more money and their lives are more secure. Wu Yue, a 79-year-old retired doctor in Beijing, told the reporter of Zhongxin.com: "My pension can probably rise by more than 200 yuan a year, and now the pension level has reached more than 5,600 yuan, which is enough!"

 

  The endowment insurance fund began to invest and operate.

 

  [Change] This year’s pension has started the pace of investment and operation. According to the data released by the Ministry of Human Resources and Social Security in November, the investment in the basic old-age insurance fund has been carried out steadily. The governments of nine provinces (autonomous regions and municipalities) such as Beijing and Anhui have signed entrusted investment contracts with the Social Security Fund Council, with a total contract value of 430 billion yuan, of which 180 billion yuan has been received and investment has begun.

 

  [Impact] Chu Fuling, director of the China Social Security Research Center of the Central University of Finance and Economics, told reporters that the pressure of providing for the aged is increasing day by day. Under the principle of safe investment and steady investment, it is necessary to invest in the surplus funds of the endowment insurance fund in various ways, which is conducive to improving the income level and realizing the preservation and appreciation of the fund.

 

 

 

  Zhongxin. com reporter Li Jinlei

 

  Inter-provincial medical treatment in different places can be directly settled.

 

  [Change] In 2017, breakthrough was made in the direct settlement of cross-provincial medical treatment in different places. As of October 31, on the basis that all provincial medical treatment settlement systems and all co-ordination areas in China have been connected to the national medical treatment settlement system in different places, the number of designated medical institutions across provinces in China has increased to 7,688, and the number of registered people has reached 1.81 million.

 

  [Impact] Direct settlement of medical treatment across provinces and different places saves the insured from the trouble of padding money and running back and forth. Tang Jisong, director of the Social Insurance Management Center of the Ministry of Human Resources and Social Security, said that all eligible insured persons can use this system to realize direct settlement of hospitalization expenses across provinces and different places, without having to advance their own funds and then reimburse them at the insured place.

 

  Some state-owned assets enrich the social security fund.

 

  [Changes] In November, the State Council announced the Implementation Plan for Transferring Part of State-owned Capital to Enrich the Social Security Fund, clarifying that the transfer ratio should be unified to 10% of the state-owned shares of enterprises, and requiring some central enterprises and some provinces to carry out pilot projects in 2017.

 

  [Impact] Zhang Yinghua, executive researcher of the World Social Security Research Center of China Academy of Social Sciences, told the reporter of Zhongxin.com that with the "blood transfusion" of the social security fund, it will alleviate the pension gap, avoid transferring the gap to the next generation, realize intergenerational equity, and at the same time help to ensure the timely and full payment of pensions and resolve the impact of the aging population on the old-age insurance system.

 

 

 

  Zhongxin. com reporter Li Jinlei

 

  Unified bookkeeping interest rate of employee pension insurance personal account

 

  [Change] According to the "Measures for Unifying and Standardizing the Bookkeeping Interest Rate of Personal Accounts of Employees’ Endowment Insurance" issued by the Ministry of Human Resources and Social Security in April 2017, the bookkeeping interest rate of personal accounts of basic endowment insurance for government agencies, institutions and enterprises will be unified and announced by the state every year. The bookkeeping interest rate should be mainly determined by considering the factors such as the salary increase of employees and the balance of funds, and adjusted through reasonable coefficients. The bookkeeping interest rate shall not be lower than the bank time deposit interest rate.

 

  [Impact] In the opinion of experts, it is helpful to realize institutional fairness to uniformly determine the bookkeeping interest rate of individual accounts of basic old-age insurance for government agencies, institutions and enterprise employees. The bookkeeping interest rate should not be lower than the bank time deposit interest rate, which will help guide the insured to actively participate in the insurance and pay in full, and ensure the basic life of the insured after retirement.

 

  Maternity and medical insurance were merged and implemented.

 

  [Change] In 2017, 12 cities including Handan City, Jinzhong City, Shenyang City, Taizhou City, Hefei City, Weihai City, Zhengzhou City, Yueyang City, Zhuhai City, Chongqing City, Neijiang City and Kunming City launched a pilot project for the merger of maternity insurance and employee basic medical insurance. The pilot will be launched before the end of June 2017, and the pilot period will be about one year.

 

  [Impact] According to the requirements, maternity insurance and medical insurance are combined, and the maternity insurance benefits of employees during childbirth remain unchanged. Yang Yansui, director of Tsinghua University Employment and Social Security Research Center, said that because the reimbursement rate of medical insurance in some places has reached 80%-90%, and the reimbursement rate of maternity insurance is still below 70%, the maternity insurance benefits in these places may be improved after the merger.

 

 

 

  China News Service reporter Li Jinhong photo

 

  Unemployment insurance rates are reduced and unemployment benefits are increased.

 

  [Change] On the one hand, it is to reduce the payment rate. From January 1, 2017, provinces (autonomous regions and municipalities) with a total unemployment insurance rate of 1.5% can reduce the total rate to 1%, and the period for reducing the rate will be implemented until April 30, 2018. On the other hand, it is to raise the unemployment insurance standard. According to the Guiding Opinions on Adjusting the Unemployment Insurance Standard issued by the Ministry of Human Resources and Social Security and the Ministry of Finance, the unemployment insurance standard will be gradually raised to 90% of the minimum wage standard.

 

  [Impact] Unemployment insurance is jointly paid by the unit and employees. With the reduction of the rate, the burden on enterprises will be further reduced, and the wages of employees may increase more or less. The unemployment benefit standard has been raised to 90% of the minimum wage standard, and the life of the unemployed is more secure.

 

  Enterprise employees can apply for skills upgrading subsidies.

 

  [Change] An important function of unemployment insurance is to stabilize employment and prevent unemployment. In 2017, unemployment insurance ushered in a new policy, and eligible employees can apply for a large number of skills upgrading subsidies. The first application condition is to participate in unemployment insurance according to law and pay unemployment insurance premiums for more than 36 months (including 36 months); The second is to obtain primary (level 5), intermediate (level 4) and advanced (level 3) vocational qualification certificates or vocational skill level certificates from January 1, 2017.

 

  [Impact] The person in charge of the unemployment insurance department of the Ministry of Human Resources and Social Security said that this mobilized the enthusiasm of employees to learn vocational skills to a certain extent, which was conducive to stabilizing employment and preventing unemployment. According to estimates, about 2 million employees will benefit every year.

 

 

 

  Zhongxin. com reporter Li Jinlei

 

  It is planned to pay pension and medical insurance for the unemployed.

 

  [Change] In November 2017, the Ministry of Human Resources and Social Security publicly solicited opinions on the Unemployment Insurance Regulations (Revised Draft for Comment). Compared with the current regulations, in the opinion draft, the basic old-age insurance premium, vocational skill appraisal subsidy and entrepreneurship subsidy for the unemployed are added, and the medical subsidy is adjusted to pay the basic medical insurance premium.

 

  [Impact] The Ministry of Human Resources and Social Security pointed out that the payment of basic old-age insurance premiums has solved the problem of the interruption of the payment of old-age insurance for the unemployed and relieved the worries of the unemployed. Paying the basic medical insurance premium ensures that the unemployed enjoy medical insurance benefits, and solves the problem of "getting medical care for the sick" during the period when the unemployed receive the payment.

 

  Industrial injury insurance benefits are adjusted at least once every two years.

 

  [Changes] In July 2017, the Ministry of Human Resources and Social Security issued the "Guiding Opinions on the Adjustment and Determination Mechanism of Work-related Injury Insurance Benefits", clarifying that in principle, work-related injury insurance benefits should be adjusted at least once every two years.

 

  [Impact] From the outside world, with the development of economy and society, the average wage and living expenses of employees have changed. Adjusting the treatment level of industrial injury insurance in a timely manner is not only the inherent requirement of the industrial injury insurance system, but also the proper meaning of protecting the rights and interests of the insured.

An important step has been taken in Syrian national reconciliation! These three countries have increased their influence in the Middle East.

       CCTV News:On the 22nd, the eighth round of Astana peace talks on Syria ended in Astana, the capital of Kazakhstan. In this round of peace talks, the date of the Syrian National Dialogue Conference, which has attracted much attention from the outside world, was finally finalized, and new ways were added to the political settlement of the Syrian issue.

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Astana peace talks (data map)

       This round of peace talks lasted for two days, including representatives from the UN Special Envoy for Syria, De Mistura, Russia, Turkey, Iran, the Syrian government and the opposition. At the plenary session, Kazakh Foreign Minister Abdrakhmanov read out a joint statement issued by Russia, Turkey and Iran, the guarantor countries of the Syrian ceasefire mechanism, saying that the parties to the Syrian conflict will hold a Syrian national dialogue meeting in the southern Russian city of Sochi from January 29 to 30, 2018.

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United Nations Special Envoy for Syria De Mistura(data map)

       In addition, representatives of the United Nations, the International Red Cross and the World Health Organization will attend the meeting as observers. In order to coordinate the final list of participants, the three ceasefire guarantor countries will hold a preparatory meeting for the National Dialogue Conference from January 19 to 20.

       Undeniably, it is an important step to hold the Syrian National Dialogue Conference, which has also given the international community new hope. However, it is still difficult to answer these questions, such as whether the Conference can achieve the expected results, where the conflict that lasted for more than six years will go, and how far it is from achieving the ultimate goal of peace.

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Damascus, Syria, was in ruins under the war.(data map)

       [Background] Astana Peace Talks

       Since January 23 this year, as one of the main ways to solve the Syrian crisis politically, Astana peace talks have been held for seven rounds, and many important consensuses have been reached on the settlement of internal conflicts in Syria, including urging all parties in Syria to cease fire and establishing a "conflict relegation zone". The seventh round of Astana peace talks on Syria at the end of October affirmed the previous decision to establish a conflict relegation zone in Syria, and discussed the formation of a Syrian national dialogue conference.

       Different from the Geneva peace talks led by the United Nations, the Astana peace talks were convened by Russia, Turkey and Iran, with the goal of achieving a permanent ceasefire between the Syrian government and anti-government forces and creating conditions for political negotiations. Although they are all concerned about the Syrian issue, the Astana peace talks and the Geneva peace talks have their own emphases. The focus of the Astana peace talks is to urge and maintain the Syrian parties to achieve a ceasefire, while the Geneva peace talks focus on Syrian political negotiations.

       The analysis pointed out that several rounds of Astana peace talks and their achievements have obviously enhanced the influence of Russia, Turkey and Iraq in the Syrian crisis, and also laid the foundation for the Syrian peace talks held in Geneva.